Virtual (dis)connections.
The increasing reliance on virtual mediation has created significant efficiency, but does it come with a downside? A growing body of research indicates that trust formation is more challenging to achieve in the teleconferencing environment. It is axiomatic that most of the information we perceive during a personal interaction comes through body language. While our brains adjust to a telephone conversation by realizing there is no visual stimulus to observe, watching for clues through a computer screen is problematic because our minds cannot pick up on all the gestures ; this creates a cognitive dissonance that undermines trust formation. Research suggests that potential mitigating behaviors include taking extra breaks, reducing the image size, turning off your self-view, and staying visually connected with nonelectronic objects in your office (e.g., a plant or picture of a loved one) to reduce mental fatigue. Additional aids include making extra efforts to listen and rephrase what you have just heard to verify that messages were accurately received.
Some studies suggest that online negotiations accentuate the parties’ inequality of power. Thus, if we represent the stronger party, we may want to critically evaluate our resistance to a virtual mediation, and vice versa.
Transparency.
Have you ever wondered if you inadvertently gave away your strategy for the negotiation or were frustrated that your opponent was not getting your message? According to professors at Cornell, Northwestern, and the University of Colorado, negotiators tend to underperform in terms of reading messages from the other side. Their studies reveal that even when people “tip their hand,” either intentionally or otherwise, the other side struggles to understand what the information means. Thus, if you fear that you carelessly gave away something there is a good chance your opponent missed it. On the other hand, if you want to send a message, it may require being more explicit than you think.
Judgment: Plaintiffs versus Defendants.
A group of American researchers conducted a series of experiments involving attorneys and students playing the roles of plaintiff’s and defense lawyers to explore whether and how perspective, i.e., representing the plaintiff or the defendant, impacted settlement judgment. They found that those representing plaintiffs exhibited “over-optimism” in estimating verdicts, prompting them to unwisely proceed toward trial. Meanwhile, defense counsel tended to make a final offer of less than the cases’ expected outcome, suggesting they were prone to overlook obvious risks.
Those results were borne out by a group of attorneys who studied thousands of California trial results from over four decades and compared them with the final pretrial offers. They found that plaintiffs were two to three times more likely to make the wrong settlement choice (i.e., doing worse at trial than if they took their opponents’ last offer). At the same time, when the defendants miscalculated, the amount of error was approximately ten times more than when the plaintiffs misjudged.
The study also concluded that the frequency and magnitude of errors were dramatically lower when the attorney was also a mediator, leading the authors to suggest that lawyers trained in dispute resolution are “more cognizant of framing biases [and] may have a salutary effect on attorney/litigant decision making.” The takeaway underscores the importance of creating ways to objectively analyze our own position, such as focus groups, inviting input from unbiased colleagues, and engaging in mediation.
Conclusion
Whether we are negotiating directly or participating in mediation, the nuances of our numbers, words, plans, and expressions can have a powerful impact on the outcome. Scientific research on bargaining offers a wealth of practical insights into how we gain the upper hand and prevent being manipulated. By employing these science-based best practices, we can have confidence that we have fulfilled our duty to produce the best possible results for our clients.