Mrs. H was happy to have me call her daughter and express my concerns. Her daughter likewise shared my concerns with some things slipping through the cracks; bills getting paid late, confusion over finances, etc.
Mrs. H was seen by a neurologist who agreed with my assessment that she had early-stage Alzheimer’s disease. Her symptoms at present consist of short-term memory loss, some issues with insight and judgment. He recommended that she only drives during the day in very familiar neighborhoods.
Mrs. H presents to your office to update her will. She is very chatty and personable. She is perhaps a little confused about some of the more complex issues in her life. Do you go ahead and update her will? What are your next steps?
Dementia is an increasingly common illness that strikes primarily older adults. Think of dementia as the umbrella term, with Alzheimer’s disease being about two thirds of the space under the umbrella. Dementia is a descriptive term that describes the condition where someone is having problems in cognition, and is no longer able to independently take care of themselves. If we believe someone has a dementia, our next step is to try to identify the underlying disease that is causing the dementia. In most cases, Alzheimer’s disease is present. The next two most common causes are Lewy Body disease and vascular disease. And then there are rarer diseases, such as frontotemporal disease that can result in dramatic personality changes, and Primary Progressive Aphasia, where people lose the ability to speak. For the purposes of this article, we will focus on Alzheimer’s disease.
According to the Alzheimer’s Association (Alz.org) there are ten warning signs to watch for.
- Memory loss that disrupts daily life
- Challenges in planning or solving problems
- Difficulty completing familiar tasks
- Confusion with time or place
- Trouble understanding visual images and spatial relationships
- New problems with words in speaking or writing
- Misplacing things and losing the ability to retrace steps
- Decreased or poor judgment
- Withdrawal from work or social activities.
- Changes in mood and personality
Not every person gets all of these symptoms, and some people may have had issues with these for years; we all know that person who can’t read a map or find a new location to save their life.
The important thing to note is that these are not changes that are part of “normal aging”. It is important to get a medical evaluation by a geriatrician or neurologist specializing in dementia for reversible or modifiable causes (e.g. vitamin B12 deficiency, depression, anticholinergic drugs) of the cognitive problems being experienced. Additionally, there are several medications that can be helpful, especially early in the disease process.
Unfortunately, Alzheimer’s is a progressive disease, and unless the patient dies from something else, they will eventually lose the ability to care for themselves, and will need total care at the end of their life.
Understanding this issue is imperative for patients and families. Deciding on the durable power of attorney for healthcare and thinking about how to finance increasing care needs in the future are especially important.
One of the more challenging aspects of dementia care is the driving issue. We all know how much independence driving gives us. However, driving is one of the more cognitively complex things that we do in our daily life. Someone with early dementia is likely not going to be a good driver, and since most dementias are progressive, the decision to retire from driving is best made before something tragic or life threatening happens. Physicians in almost all states are able to notify Department of Motor Vehicles about patients who refuse to stop driving.
So what do you do with Mrs. H and her will? One thing that I wish we all did more frequently would be to pick up the phone and have a discussion with the primary care physician or neurologist. In medicine, we ask the question, is the patient able to make an informed decision about a specific item at this time? It may be reassuring if the family is involved and in agreement, but does the family have Mrs. H’s best interests in mind?
We would likely agree that Mrs. H would be able to make some changes in her will, as long as her family was involved and in agreement. However, if she was trying to leave her entire state to some flaky charity, then we may have to reconsider.