Leading with Self
A deeper understanding of self-assessment can be informed by the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model, which provides a framework for leading and growing from an optimized mindset. Developed by Dr. Richard Schwartz, the IFS model views the human psyche as composed of multiple “parts” — thoughts, emotions, and behaviors that arise in different contexts. It also introduces the concept of the “Self,” our core essence characterized by qualities such as calmness, compassion, clarity, curiosity, creativity, confidence, courage, and connectedness. These “eight Cs” serve as guiding principles for leading and growing from an authentic place. By leading with Self rather than letting reactive parts take control, we make better decisions and align our actions with our true values.
Consider the lessons from Pixar’s Inside Out, which offers a simplified yet relatable depiction of the interplay between parts and Self. In the film, Riley’s emotions — Joy, Sadness, Anger, and others — navigate her life, sometimes creating chaos when any one emotion dominates. Similarly, in professional contexts, we often act from anxious or fearful parts of ourselves rather than leading with the calm confidence of our Self. By practicing self-assessment, we can identify these reactive parts, nurture them, and allow our Self to take the lead. This approach ensures our growth is aligned with our highest values and intentions.
Putting Self-Assessment into Practice
Regular self-assessment also has practical benefits for law firm professionals. It sharpens reflective practice skills, encourages self-regulation, and enhances your ability to navigate challenges. When integrated into your annual professional routine, self-assessment snowballs into a deeper understanding of how you show up at work, both in communication and collaboration. This practice doesn’t just improve individual performance; it contributes to a healthier and more cohesive workplace culture.
In practice, self-assessment might involve setting aside time at the end of each quarter or year to review your goals and performance. Consider questions like: Did I stay true to my personal values? How did I handle challenges? What lessons have I learned, and how will they inform my future actions? Approach this process with curiosity and courage, viewing it as an opportunity for growth rather than a critique. This mindset shift transforms self-assessment from a daunting task to an empowering exercise.
Ultimately, self-assessment is a gift you give yourself. It empowers you to take ownership of your growth and shape your professional journey intentionally. By defining your personal pillars, evaluating your performance honestly, and leading with Self, you become not just your own coach but your own champion. In doing so, you cultivate a fulfilling and impactful career, one guided by authenticity, purpose, and the continuous pursuit of excellence.