March is Women’s History Month. Our nation celebrated 100 years of women’s suffrage in 2020. The American Bar Association (ABA) had a traveling exhibit in 2020 commemorating this anniversary. This traveling exhibit was a life-size presentation of the events that took place before, during, and after the passing of the 19th Amendment. I remember seeing this exhibit at the 2020 ABA Midyear Meeting in Austin, Texas, the last in-person meeting before we were all hit with the COVID-19 pandemic. After seeing that traveling exhibit, I felt a calling, a sense of duty to do more in the legal community during the pandemic; I knew I had the tools and network as a lawyer to do so even during a time when we all shifted to virtual events and meetings. I’ve written a few articles on this topic because, as an American woman of color, I believe it’s especially meaningful and significant that the women (and men) before me advocated for women’s right to vote through the 19th Amendment.
The History of Women’s History Month
Women have come a long way since then. According to womenshistorymonth.gov, “Women’s History Month had its origins as a national celebration in 1981 when Congress passed Pub. L. 97-28, which authorized and requested the President to proclaim the week beginning March 7, 1982, as ‘Women’s History Week.’” (Women’s History Month.) And in 1987, Congress passed Pub. L. 100-9, which designated the month of March 1987 as “Women’s History Month” after being petitioned by the National Women’s History Project. (Id.) “Between 1988 and 1994, Congress passed additional resolutions requesting and authorizing the President to proclaim March of each year as ‘Women’s History Month.’” (Id.) Since 1995, the month of March has celebrated Women’s History, and each year has had a different but significant theme celebrating the achievements women have made in a variety of fields throughout American history.
The Role Model I Did Not Know I Had—My Mother
The National Women’s History Alliance (formerly the National Women’s History Project) announced the theme for 2023 is “Celebrating Women Who Tell Our Stories.” I feel like this theme hits home for me. I’ve frequently mentioned the importance of storytelling in my previous Legal Angle columns. I’ve mentioned my father a few times in my past columns, but I don’t believe I’ve mentioned my mother directly. I am very much my father’s daughter. My mother is a complicated person, but I admire her greatly. She’s lived through extreme and traumatic times during the Vietnam War. I’ve heard numerous stories about this time from her. My mother was a few months away from graduating from college in Vietnam before the Vietnam War started. As a law and foreign relations major, she had her eyes set on becoming an ambassador. (I actually did not learn of this bit until much later in my life during my law school days.) Her dreams were abruptly ripped from her. Throughout all of that, she still managed to raise three children in a foreign country (America), become a college and graduate school graduate (she had to start from the beginning because she could not transfer her college credits from Vietnam), and become part of the American workforce for several decades.
It was not easy growing up with two busy immigrant parents, but now that I’m older, I can’t image how difficult it was for my parents to raise me and my siblings, establish themselves in a foreign country after living through war-torn times, and generally be expected to just live and thrive. Growing up, I was often told that “I’ll learn to appreciate my parents more as I get older,” and, in my case, I think that’s true. I really took my time in law school more seriously when I found out that my mom was actually a law major in college. She’s a tough character to please, and she’s known for giving tough love (if any love at all). I didn’t get something remotely close to “I am proud of you” until I graduated with my LLM in taxation. She expected nothing but the best from me, and as I am getting older, my views have aligned with hers. I also don’t expect anything but the best from me because I am capable of performing at a high level. It’s not easy, but I can do it. My mother’s legacy lives through me. The celebration of Women’s History Month doesn’t have to be about someone famous. It can simply be a celebration of the women around you, like your mother.