Most lawyers will tell you they are risk averse. After all, a good part of our job is to mitigate the risk that our clients are taking, whether it is the risk of starting a new venture, going to trial, settling, or any combination of situations. We are skilled at analyzing the scenario, identifying the facts in our favor, and recognizing the pitfalls. Still, sometimes we fail to turn that analytical mindset on ourselves. This is our comfort zone. Here is a story of a lawyer who found her comfort zone working in-house for a company.
A Lawyer’s Parable of Personal Growth
Once upon a time, there was a lawyer named Sarah who worked at a company. When she started at the company, Sarah believed she was on a path with rapid growth potential (“the sky was the limit”). But the longer she forged on at the company, the more she found herself feeling unhappy and unfulfilled. She spent long hours at the office, working on matters of little importance and feeling disconnected from the path she thought she was on.
One day, Sarah realized the corporate ladder that she thought she was climbing was an illusion. When she challenged the company to explain why the opportunity she was brought in for was no longer there, the company responded, “It doesn’t matter, where else are you going to go?” Keep in mind, not every company wants their employees to feel trapped, but the higher-ups at this company prioritized their own interests over their employees’ well-being. In this case, however, the company miscalculated. There is always somewhere you can go. Sarah left the company, taking the skills she had honed there, and began working for herself. She quickly learned that working for herself offered new challenges and limitless possibilities. She could work from home, set her own schedule, and be there for her family.
As she looked back on her career, Sarah realized that her decision to leave the comforts of the corporate world and forge her own path was a turning point. It led her down a path of personal growth and transformation that has allowed her to find fulfillment and purpose in her work as a lawyer.
Risk Aversion Is Also Risky
The funny thing is, you actually risk a lot by staying in your comfort zone. Dangers include:
- Limited personal growth. When you stay too long in your comfort zone, you tend to avoid new experiences and challenges that could help you develop new skills. Over time, this leads to stagnation and limits your personal and professional growth potential.
- Missed opportunities. By sticking to what you know, you may miss out on new and exciting opportunities that could enhance your life or career. Stepping outside of your comfort zone can open doors to new experiences, relationships, and career paths.
- Increased fear and anxiety. While staying in your comfort zone may feel safe and familiar, it can also lead to increased fear and anxiety about the unknown. This can cause you to avoid new experiences, which can limit your personal and professional growth.
- Lack of innovation. Comfort zones can become a breeding ground for complacency. When you’re comfortable with the way things are, you may not feel the need to innovate or try new things. This can be a disadvantage in today’s rapidly changing world, where innovation and creativity are highly valued.
So, you risk something by staying in your comfort zone, and you risk something by stepping out of it. Which one has the potential to help you most in the end? The biggest reason we don’t take risks in our personal and professional life is fear. Taking risks often involves facing and overcoming fear.