Spirituality
Kelly says that the most defining moment in her life came when she was 24 years old and gave her life to Christ. Up until that point, she admits her life was chaotic; she didn’t have it all figured out. She says, “Once I surrendered to the Lord, my life started changing.” She got married at 23, had a son at 25, started law school at 26, had another son at 28, graduated law school, and then at 33, she had her third boy. Right now, the boys are 14, 11, and seven. Kelly says, “With all that change and activity, the decision to surrender my life to Christ put my life in order. I stepped into the path that was ordained for me.”
Self-Care
Kelly had a series of spiritual experiences that put her firmly on the path of mindfulness, too. She had a law school professor who instilled the concepts of mindfulness into her lectures, and something in one of them inspired a “light bulb” moment for Kelly that changed her life: She got the message to take care of herself. Sometimes, these insights happen so fast and without warning, and thank heavens Kelly was intuitive enough to catch that message she needed.
After that, she realized she needed to do something for herself that brought her joy. She started to sell Lia Sophia jewelry through a direct sales company. This venture was a big change of atmosphere for her; she enjoyed working with beautiful jewelry and being around a group of fun people in a less serious, nondemanding setting. And she made some money, too. The whole experience was very therapeutic for her, and it taught her a couple of very valuable lessons.
Kelly says,
I became very cognizant that I need to do things that make me happy and that don’t require anything from me. And that my time with God, when I can break away and take whatever extra amount of time I have to take a deep breath, whether it’s three minutes or 15 minutes, is the most restorative time for me. It helps me sleep better and to feel restored. This is when my life changed, and I know that the Lord has my back.
Know Who You Are
Kelly’s LEAD line is “Know Who You Are.” She says, “Your identity is important. You can do anything. Everyone comes from a different background and can accomplish what they set their mind to do.” What an honor and joy it was for her to share this message that she has learned so young in her life to a group of more than 600 students from ten schools on a mission trip last August in Limpopo, South Africa.
Right now, she juggles a very active life, being deeply involved in her three sons’ lives. They are all scholars and athletes. She balances her career and running her own firm with that deep sense of purpose that her faith provides her. Kelly admitted she was still trying to process receiving the Difference Makers Award. She said,
I’m still kind of in shock. I feel so honored to be perceived as a Difference Maker. Most people didn’t know that at the time I became a Diversity Director, I was going through a divorce I didn’t understand, and my life was going in different directions. It was so rewarding to have that job to do while I was adjusting to a new way of life. And now, to be recognized for what I did amidst the adversity, well, it just spurs me on to keep going. We are resilient, and with God having my back, the sky is the limit.
It is going to be fun for me to watch Kelly’s life trajectory and see what she does with it. She is young but has the wisdom instilled in her that will take her far. I’m encouraged and inspired by her faith, and I know that this is only the beginning for her. And, as you begin your new year, ponder your defining moments and think about how they have shaped your life. There may be some gold in there that can help you deal with things in the future as you contemplate everything you have been through up to this point.
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