Finding Your Hobby
Now, let’s look at the fun stuff! What are the different kinds of hobbies that you may never have thought about? And what are the boring ones you have already tried, only to find “good” excuses to stop? Remember, hobbies are not work. They are pleasurable and interesting.
Sports
This includes all the usual sports you are familiar with but also unique sports such as curling, badminton, pickleball, ocean swimming, and almost anything where you are moving your body from one place to another. Some are team efforts or need partners. This is where the Internet and social media provide access to groups that can be joined. Some people find that groups or partners keep them more accountable.
Exercise
Formal exercise at the gym or in classes is tempting but easily dropped. One of the best exercises is playing with the kids or grandkids. Running around the park is easy and makes everyone happy. Yes, this can be a hobby if you make it into a routine and do it consistently.
Arts and Crafts
If you have never been interested in these, give them a try. It’s not limited to painting but includes knitting, pottery, collage, and other less obvious art-related interests, such as interior design. You could also support the creative arts by joining groups whose purpose is to back art projects or help return art instruction to public schools.
Music
Again, there are a wide variety of ways to enjoy music as a hobby. Play an instrument, join a group, go to concerts, etc. The important tenet is to organize your hobby so that it is ongoing and encourages you to explore new avenues of enjoyment.
Cooking
People who must cook every day for their families don’t find this hobby too impressive. People who don’t have to cook often find it fun to try out new recipes, watch cooking shows, and take classes. When it is pleasurable and a choice, it is often a very enjoyable hobby.
Animals
How about the time spent caring for dogs, cats, and other domesticated animals? Commit to a plan that includes accepting the responsibilities associated with the care of an animal or animals—feeding your pets, taking them to the vet, learning everything you can about them, and, best of all, playing with them every day. If you are unable to have an actual pet, you might want to advocate for abused animals. The important action is to formalize your pleasure into a hobby so it’s an ongoing part of your life balance.
Other Hobbies
You can find many tutorials on YouTube to introduce you to other hobbies, such as smartphone photography (Chris Orwig), flowers and flower arranging (Society of American Florists), computer programming (freeCodeCamp.org), learning a new language (too many sites to list, but start here for an overview of top YouTube channels), home repairs (Home Depot), and numerous other opportunities to expand your brain and become a more well-rounded person.
After looking through the suggestions above, consider pairing a health-centered hobby with a smaller, more interest-based hobby.
And remember that you may want to change your hobbies as you grow and mature in your needs. As retirement or other life-changing events occur in your life, a new hobby might be desired. Be sure to include more time for hobbies in your retirement plan to fill the hole that opened up when you stopped working. If you have ongoing hobbies that can be expanded at this time, it makes your entire life easier. The pandemic was a real eye-opener as attorneys scrambled to reconsider their work lives. Having ongoing hobbies that could be expanded helped many.
Final Questions to Help You Plan
Now, hopefully, I have convinced you to take a hard look at the hobbies in your life and decide if you would like to develop some new ones or enlarge the ones you have.
Here are some questions to help you sort this out:
- Did you ever wish you could do something that you’ve never done?
- What was your favorite subject in high school? College?
- Did you ever admire some person who had a special hobby?
- Did you ever wish that you had more pleasurable activities in your life?
- Do you anticipate a major change in your life?
- Do you frequently find yourself running out of conversation when you are asked about what you are interested in?
If any of these questions are beneficial to you, I invite you to continue to explore how you can increase your mental health, experience less stress, and become a more interesting person.