May 22, 2019 Practice Management

Book Review: The Shield of Silence: How Power Perpetuates a Culture of Harassment and Bullying in the Workplace

Review by Kathleen Balthrop Havener
The Shield of Silence: How Power Perpetuates a Culture of Harassment and Bullying in the Workplace by Lauren Stiller Rikleen

The Shield of Silence: How Power Perpetuates a Culture of Harassment and Bullying in the Workplace by Lauren Stiller Rikleen

Where should we lay the blame for the toxic culture of abuse that pervades our workplaces? The problematic environment stretches far. It includes our schools and colleges, our social media platforms, even our public institutions. Anyone whose eyes are open knows the problem is real. Less obvious is why toxicity began, what it feeds on, why we tolerate it, and whether we will ever do anything about it. In her new book, The Shield of Silence: How Power Perpetuates a Culture of Harassment and Bullying in the Workplace (Ankerwycke, 2019), Lauren Stiller Rikleen harnesses evidence-based research, countless interviews, and the power of her own intelligence and experience. She not only identifies some of the most pernicious root causes of harassment, but she ventures into ideas for how we might overcome its destructive presence.

My scribbled notes adorn nearly every page of my copy of this fascinating exploration into a shockingly pervasive phenomenon. Even a quick glance through my scratched notes reveals the two dominant factors that Rikleen argues perpetuate a culture of abuse: fear and secrecy.

Whether or not you’ve experienced workplace harassment, you will nonetheless recognize both factors in an instant because you’ve likely witnessed them. While a victim may ultimately settle on outrage, anger, frustration—any number of emotions—the first one that everyone experiences who has been targeted by a harasser is fear. It comes most noticeably in cases of physical violence or coercion. Mostly, it triggers a basic fear for one’s safety and bodily integrity. Yet it arises in other forms, just as debilitating. For instance, even a misplaced suggestive or risqué comment engenders fear in the target. “Will I lose my job? Will he come after me? Will anyone listen? Will anyone believe me? Even if they do, will they care? He’s an important person in this organization and I’m just a [fill in the blank].” Paying attention, understanding that your actions may trigger fear in others unfairly, teaches us that the harasser’s real intent is power, not sexual gratification.

As Rikleen articulates, the second factor—and perhaps the more destructive—is secrecy. Quoting from a Bloomberg Businessweek article about a class action lawsuit against Goldman Sachs, Rikleen highlights “a culture that fetishizes secrecy and loyalty” that discourages victims from reporting their mistreatment. Indeed, what Ms. Rikleen identifies is that the problem is not just discouragement; the problem is also punishment for speaking up. The consequence is a code of silence. And with silence, the problem persists in all its forms. My initial response to this toxic dynamic was, “Loyalty to whom?” Of course, the answer to that question often results in actions by those with power that express “Not to the victims.”

When I began practicing law, there was an inordinate emphasis put on loyalty of newer associates to large firms. What we didn’t realize, of course, was that the loyalty our firms paid lip service to wasn’t mutual. And if a junior lawyer dared to report an incident of toxic unfairness or harassment, that lawyer often simply disappeared—with a hefty severance perhaps but bound by a non-disclosure agreement (NDA) and leaving no forwarding address.

NDAs contribute to what Rikleen calls “the nullification of the victim.” They keep the public, or even the individuals’ co-workers, in the dark about predatory behavior and protect the perpetrators even from facing shame about their misconduct. NDAs help to explain why so many harassers are serial offenders who harm a veritable parade of victims.

For decades, lawyers have wrung our hands and lamented the departure of so many women from careers in the law after too few years in the profession. Scholars, researchers, and legal commentators have posited many potential causes. Few have been so bold as to insist that at least one of the culprits is sexual harassment or bullying in our workplaces. It is surely one thing that “changes . . . how [we] are treated or how [we] perceive [our]selves or [our] opportunities for professional development.” As a senior lawyer looking back, I think, “Of course, that’s a huge reason why so many leave.”

While Rikleen’s book is validating for one who has endured episodes of mistreatment, harassment, and un-checked bullying, it offers so much more. Critically, it sets forth a blueprint for how organizations can go about changing their cultures, not just their policies or practices, but the essence of what has kept them (and us) from advancing toward a spirit of alliance and cooperation in eliminating one form of oppression in our workplaces.

I recommend The Shield of Silence to anyone who has suffered bullying at work. I recommend it more urgently to anyone who has perpetrated it or allowed it to continue after learning about it. I recommend it most enthusiastically to anyone who is in a position of authority in any organization that hasn’t thoroughly eliminated bias from its workplace.

Finally, this book is an invitation to consciousness. Bullies sometimes may not even know they are bullying; their way of functioning is all they know. Their lack of awareness is not a justification and should never be one. Nonetheless, this book can help invite awareness. And that is where we can begin. In short, any person who is in a position of authority would benefit from a deep read of this valuable book, and, too, victims of harassment or bullying behavior will find comfort and potential solutions.

The Shield of Silence: How Power Perpetuates a Culture of Harassment and Bullying in the Workplace

By Lauren Stiller Rikleen
Ankerwycke, 2019
Product Code 1620776
$24.95; ABA member price $19.95

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Kathleen Balthrop Havener is an attorney with the Cullen Law Firm, PLLC, in Washington, D.C. She focuses on complex commercial matters in state and federal trial and appellate courts, mediation, arbitration (including international arbitration), and administrative proceedings across the country. Kathleen particularly focuses on constitutional challenges to state and local legislation. She is a frequent writer and public speaker on diversity and inclusion in the legal profession.