• Gain some perspective by looking at your situation from the standpoint of your supervisors. If your supervisors have not already told you what professional qualities are important to them, ask.
• Be proactive and seek the professional opportunities you desire and the constructive evaluations you need. Then heed the advice you get!
• Don’t make it hard for your supporters to support you. For example, if you have a billable-hour requirement, meet it, or you’ll make it hard for your would-be supporters to legitimately praise you.
• Find a trusted advisor who knows your firm or organization well—and who will call a spade a spade. Once this advisor gains your confidence, and vice versa, she may even share valuable inside information that will help you navigate within your organization.
• Don’t be a recluse; develop a social and professional network inside and outside your business. Remember, you are not alone. Similarly, learn about the structure of your organization and its process of decision making.
• Don’t underestimate the meaning of the word support in your support staff. Your staff can save your hide! Remember that good advice and information can come from a variety of sources, not just from the leaders in your organization.
• Recognize your strengths and play to them while working on your shortcomings. For example, if you’re not naturally very organized, seek help from your support staff to problem solve and maintain organization.
• If you truly are a square peg that stands no chance of becoming well rounded, don’t try to fit into the round hole. You’re more likely to find your niche and blossom professionally in a different organization—one that values square pegs.